Tyler Baltierra is keeping things very real.
And very crude too.
The longtime Teen Mom cast member posted a lengthy note on his Instagram Story this weekend, days after his wife Kaitlynn faced criticism.
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On May 9, Caitlyn re-shared a message on social media at the time, referencing the notion that “adoption is a beautiful thing”.
“Oh, how often I hear these words and it bothers me.
“Yes. Adoption can be a beautiful story. But that phrase sidesteps the heartache, pain, and loss that often comes with it.”
However, Tyler and Kaitlynn left their daughter Carly in her teens They have been given opportunities to meet several times over the years by her adoptive parents.
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However, now it seems like these same parents have recently been denying Tyler and Catelynn the chance to see Carly… which at least partially inspired Catelynn’s bitter reaction above.
“This choice does not come without natural human costs,” Tyler explained about giving up your child.
“Most will never know the pain that is required to fight against the most powerful, organic and innate nature required to make that choice.
“Most people will never know what it’s like to grow up, nurture, love, and hold such a beautiful innocence like your own child… only to have that natural bond painfully relinquished with another and that What you know you can’t do for the sake of your child.”
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Admitting that Caitlyn, in particular, “fights this pain every day,” the 32-year-old called out strangers who have come up to the reality star to share her feelings.
Tyler wrote online, “On those special days when she is vulnerable, sad, and at a loss, expressing that pain should not be used as an attack against her character.”
“I just want to ask you to please be kind.”
In our opinion, this seems to be a fair question.
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Tyler and Kaitlynn reunite with Carly about a year ago. However, we do not know when he last saw or tried to see him.
Tylee – who also has daughters Nowell, 9, Veda, 5, and Rhea, 2, with his wife – added that despite a “mutually agreed upon” plan to meet Carly every year, the couple were denied the opportunity Is. Seeing Carly multiple times and seeing her frustration over the situation is “nothing new or foreign.”
He further added, “We have not done anything in our personal lives that would have influenced this decision.”
“But after all, Brandon and Teresa are her parents! They are the only ones who have the authority to take these decisions.”
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